Terms of Reference on True Discipleship

When we buy some products, they usually come with a manual containing the “Instructions for Use” or “Terms of Reference”. It is always recommended to read the instructions carefully before use. If one wants to get the best out of the product purchased, one must be faithful to the instructions given by the manufacturers. Neglecting the instructions will prevent the maximum benefit from the product and might even cause gross damage.

Instructions for Discipleship

In the Gospel of today (Matthew 10: 7 – 15), Jesus gives his disciples the “instructions for use” on discipleship. Before sending them out, Jesus gives them what we may call the “terms of reference” for their mission. Any true disciple is expected to be faithful to these instructions and should refer to them from time to time during their mission. The starting point is perhaps the most decisive: “And as you go, preach that the Kingdom of Heaven is near”.

The true disciple is, first and foremost, a preacher of the closeness and proximity of the “kingdom within reach”. This is important because it should structurally become the characteristic of every Christian attitude. The Christian, by definition, creates and preaches “closeness”.  Evil, through judgment and accusation, creates distance. Mercy shortens distances and tells the truth but, at the same time, bridges the distance with love. And what does this mean in concrete terms? How can you bridge a distance with love? Through “being there”.

In Words and Actions

The preaching of the nearness of the Kingdom of God can be done not only with words but by being there in people’s lives. “Rejoice with those who rejoice, and suffer with those who suffer” (Romans 12:15). In this sense, a Christian is authorized to tell the truth only if he is then willing to put himself in the first person in the things he says. I can say words of truth to those who live in a different emotional condition only if I am willing to truly enter into friendship and closeness to their situation, to listen and feel their fatigue, and listen to their questions or expectations.

Terms of Reference on True Discipleship
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It would be too abstract to preach a truth without charity. The devil usually does this to create distances and justify them. The truth in charity does not consist in finding the most suitable tone of voice to say something harsh but in accepting to become close friends, traveling companions, and witnesses, in fact.

The actions recommended by Jesus for the proclamation of the Kingdom are these: welcoming the excluded, trusting in hospitality, encouraging sharing, and living stably and peacefully (coexistence). If this happens, then we can shout from the rooftops: The Kingdom of God is among us!

Proclaiming the Kingdom does not consist only of teaching truths and doctrines, catechism, or canon law. Also, it is about leading people to a new way of living and coexisting, a new way of thinking and acting, influenced by the Gospel of Jesus.

As a disciple, are you faithful to the terms of reference the Master gave?

[Readings for Thursday Week 14: Hosea 11:1-4, 8e-9; Matthew 10:7-15]


Fr. John Bosco Obiako

Fr. JohnBosco Obiako is a priest of the Catholic Diocese of Orlu, Nigeria. He is a doctoral student of Philosophy at the Pontifical Gregorian University, Rome - Italy, with a special interest in Philosophy and Ethics of technology. He also provides spiritual and pastoral services as Chaplain to African Anglophone Catholic Community in the Diocese of Prato, Italy. Email contact: [email protected]

2 Comments

  1. JohnBosco on July 11, 2024 at 2:45 pm

    Thank you, Queen, for your beautiful words. May God grant us the grace to continue preaching the nearness of His Kingdom, not only through words but also through concrete deeds of Christian love. We pray: May His Kingdom come!
    Grace to you.

  2. Queen on July 11, 2024 at 4:41 am

    Fr John Bosco thank you for your reflection on the gospel of Matt 10:7-15 does a great job comparing discipleship instructions to product manuals. This comparison helps show why it’s important to follow Jesus’ teachings closely to live out our Christian mission. You clearly explain that the main job of a disciple is to preach that the Kingdom of Heaven is near, which captures Jesus’ key message.

    Focusing on “closeness” and “being there” as essential traits of a true disciple is very meaningful and reference to Romans 12:15 supports d idea that our words should be backed by our actions and our willingness to share in others’ experiences. This makes d idea of preaching the Kingdom more practical and easy to understand.

    Overall, I really appreciate your reflection is insightful and practical. It encourages a balanced approach to discipleship that combines truth with love and presence.

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